I had this wrong! If I'd actually *studied* Latin along w/ The Girl, I'd know, right?
We were using the Latin term "cum," and I wanted to suggest not using it. i was going to argue, "it means 'turned into,' and our bride is still a blogger."
So, I looked it up. And it means "with," of course. (Duh!)
I've interpreted it wrong, all along. Or, people have been using it wrong. In "model cum actress," I've always assumed (or perhaps it has been the case, in instances I've paid attention to) that the "model" identity was left behind (model-cum-actress Farrah Fawcett may still have modeled, but that was now subservient to her actress role).
What did you use wrong, all along?